Has the absence of your father impacted you?

You have found yourself struggling in your relationships and have asked yourself time and time again, “What is wrong with me?” You’re either alone, you go from one relationship to the next, or you’re in a long-term, unhappy, dysfunctional relationship and are too afraid to leave. You fear abandonment at your core and you’re triggered by the slightest rejection. You put everyone else first and sacrifice your needs and desires to make others happy. This is all you’ve ever known, but you still feel taken advantage of, resentful, and angry.

You may have thought to yourself things like, “If my dad didn’t love me, no one else will, “If I couldn’t trust my father, I can’t trust anyone,” or “If I wasn’t worthy to my father, I must be worthless.” These thoughts are perfectly valid, but couldn’t be further from the truth.

I am here to help you understand the impact that your relationship with your father has had on every facet of your life. You will learn how to love and prioritize yourself, process through all of the negative thoughts and emotions you’ve been carrying around, separate his issues from yours, and ultimately forgive him so that you don’t have to live this way anymore.

Are you an Adult Child of an Alcoholic?

I understand first-hand how living with an alcoholic can be. You have witnessed this person kill themselves slowly and sacrifice everything for their next fix. Your relationship is strained and they are simply not the same person you once knew. They are violent, manipulative, unpredictable, and putting themselves and your family in danger. Everyone in this position needs support. You will learn to set boundaries, stop enabling this person, protect yourself/your children if there is violence occurring in your home, and gather the strength to leave if necessary.

It’s time to let go and move forward. I can help you get there.